事实上是，人常被自己说服，外界很难有力量改变，

 

自我劝说的魅力很大，它的强大之处在于，正方和辩方都来自同一思想，即自身，

 

从反抗、怀疑，到最终的认同、支持，

 

每个人都有无法摆脱的记忆的包袱和经验的累积，由此产生的感受也不尽相同，

 

也会影响到各自解析的结果，就像人喜欢不同颜色的布料，聆听不同种类的音乐一样，

 

可是，如果到外太空看，地球上每个人这种独一无二的选择，

 

是不是和小蚂蚁，树叶，石子一样，在平静中运动着，显示不出任何变化？

 

若不是两岸猿声，

 

轻舟早已过。

Can't you see i'm trying, i don't even like it
I just lie to get to your apartment
Now i'm staying there just for a while
I can't think 'cause i'm just way too tired
　　
　　Is this it
　　Is this it
　　Is this it
　　
Said they'd give you anything you ever wanted
When they lied i knew they were just stable
Children trying hard not to realise i was sitting right behind
　　
Dear can't you see, it's them it's not me
We're not enimies, we just disagree
If i was like him, all dissing his pa
He changes his mind, says i went too far
We all disagree i think we should disagree, yeah
　　
　　Is this it
　　Is this it
　　Is this it
　　
Can't you see i'm trying, i don't even like it
I just lie to get to your apartment
Now i'm staying there just for a while
I can't think 'cause i'm just way too tired

 

忽然发现活在当下这四个字实际上也很主观

 

过去的并没有完全消失在生活中

偶尔会沉溺在回忆的岁月

而未来又难预见，理想和现实总是有距离

 

王朔说，一切都无须争取，我只要等待，时间到了自然会轮到我。

 

 

 

我挺喜欢他这句话的。